While we hope all of you can make it to Jamaica to celebrate our wedding with us, we also recognize the costs/time involved in such a trip. Therefore, we hope your RSVP says "yes" but won't be offended and will understand if you can't make it. We just wanted to make sure that you knew that we were thinking of you and hoping that you would be able to join us. I mean you can't have a better excuse to take a little beach vacation, right?